Why Is My Relationship So Difficult?

When we have a relationship with someone that is "difficult", it is often because we are ignoring something happening inside ourselves.

It often means that we are attracting an individual to us who will mirror back to us
something that needs healing inside of us.

Sometimes by giving us the EXPERIENCE of the OPPOSITE of what we are wanting.
Sometimes it is something that we are needing to address in ourselves,and have ignored for a long time.

Notice when you have INTENSE feelings about a situation,incident,or person.
Catching a feeling or thought in the moment,(as it is happening) is the key.
How does this situtation make you feel? What does it remind you of from the past?

Keep a notebook for awhile noting when you have extreme or intense emotions, about a person or situation,
and what it reminds you of from the past. Soon you will begin to see a pattern emerge. And some understanding and awareness of you.

These SELF exercises dont always reveal everything at once.
Awareness of oneself is a slow but sure process. But by becoming quiet within,
and asking on a regular basis,it becomes easier,and your awareness grows.

In addition, contracting (asking) with your High Self or Soul Level
to help with the work,you can accelerate the process.

I wish you much En-light-enment
and a Peacefilled Heart,
AUROEALIS